don't think anyone was judging anyone brother. you yourself saw the confusion caused by the lack of information provided, I pointed it out, then some new addition to the conversation had an irrational emotional outburst and took the role of cybersaviour upon himself and tried to make himself look smart while saving others' feelings. that's about it... so yeah, very modern Jerry Springer tipe shit, sadly.
I also believe the religious "don't judge others" belief hold very little water. that's a very poor stance to have in life. instead, to gain better judgement in life you need to be open to judgement and you need to judge stuff. it's not a bad thing, depending on who you ask, it's very constructive. but if you put your emotions first you'll ALWAYS think people are fighting or arguing with you. that's for the children, we're all grown ups here. I hope.